Are you one of those people who thinks that if they prepare to write their will that they are inviting tragedy to happen to them?
Guess what? It doesn't work that way.
If you haven't taken care of executing your will, and/or sharing bank account numbers with your spouse or partner, then you should do it today.
Not to be an alarmist, but you really have no idea what is going to happen to you and you should be prepared. Think of it as a gift that you are giving to the people that you love. Life has a way of catching you off-guard and then, unfortunately, you find yourself with regrets.
I promise you, once you take care of figuring out who is charge of your health decisions and your property should you not be in a position to say, you will feel amazing!
First stop: a great web site called Get Your Shit Together (http://getyourshittogether.org/) No shit. That's really what the website is called. It offers free downloads of lots of templates for wills, living wills and power of attorney.
Chanel Reynolds started the website a few years ago after her young and vigorous husband was hit by a car while bicycling. He tragically died from the accident, leaving Reynolds with two children to raise. She knew she and her husband had drafted wills for each other but the wills weren't signed and she had no idea how much money they had in their bank account.
I related to Reynolds story. My husband was sick for about two and a half years before he died and I remember that awful feeling of being completely helpless when the doctors came to me one day when he was in the hospital and they asked me if I had power of attorney. I told the doctors I didn't and they quickly replied, "You better get it today."
All at once the sheer mighty weight of our collective finances fell on my shoulders and I was not prepared to take them over either. My husband had a will but it was out of date. I didn't have a will and I didn't have power of attorney. And our dear son was thirteen years old during this chaotic and emotional time.
Of course, now I do have a will and a living will and I feel a lot better knowing that copies of those essential documents sit in my attorney's file cabinet.
No matter what your situation, read Chanel's story and check out her helpful website which features a checklist of things that you may want to review to ensure that your property and your health are handled the way you want.
Here is the link to Chanel's story recently published in The New York Times: